Separation can be difficult. Apart from the emotional impact, there may be immediate questions about children, the family home, finances, support and what happens next.
If you are considering separation or have recently separated, here are a few practical steps to think about:
- Understand your legal situationBeing separated does not necessarily mean you are divorced. Your rights and obligations may also depend on whether you are married or living in a common-law relationship.
Getting legal advice early can help you understand your options before making major decisions.
- Think about arrangements for the childrenIf you have children, consider where they will live, how parenting time will work and how important decisions about their health, education and well-being will be made.
The best interests of the children should remain the focus.
- Gather important financial informationStart organizing documents such as tax returns, pay statements, bank and investment statements, mortgage and pension information, debts, and other financial records.
These documents may become important when dealing with child support, spousal support or property issues.
- Be careful about major financial decisionsBefore withdrawing significant funds, transferring property, closing joint accounts or making other major financial changes, consider obtaining legal advice about the possible consequences.
- Keep important communications and recordsKeep copies of relevant emails, text messages, financial documents and other important records. Good documentation can help if disagreements arise later.
- Consider getting legal advice earlyYou do not have to wait until there is a dispute or court proceeding. Early legal advice may help you understand your rights, identify the issues that need to be resolved and consider whether an agreement can be reached without going to court.
Every separation is different. The right first step will depend on your family, finances and circumstances.